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"snoozle; a word to use in private."

"Always start slow :)"

"A woman's second greatest asset is her eyes, her greatest; her mind."

"Foreplay and Afterplay are more important"

"Love, passion, intimacy are the best sex."

"Homophobes are deep down unsure of their own sexuality. "

"Never smuther a woman, give her space or the relationship will fizzle out. A women's alone time is sacred"

"I would love to be a lesbian for a day (and a night); women know the secretes of women. Give them respect"

"There are at least 11 (Many independent obversers like to believe there are 7) erogenous area on women's bodies, they just need to be snuzzled...go out find them...damn you."

"Every woman is different, never assume. "

"A man will never be a real Lover if he's not in touch with his feminine side."

"Variety is the greatest aphrodisiac."

"Don't forget your hands ;) very useful"

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"trust is needed to overcome fridgidness"

"Don't go for shortcuts. Think like a pendulum gradually comming... to a halt"

"One persons hates can be anothers likes"

"Men, try thinking; 'I am a lesbian' "

"women (and men) share your sexual concerns; if it's not right, make it right."

"To accept your wrong and to say sorry, is showing strength, to deny is worthless."

"The natural smell of women is intoxicating; so women out there, if you want to entice your partner don't mask your natural fragrance. "

"Be prepared"

"Learn massage"

"Sex is the most wonderful thing partners can share, don't flaunt it."

"Concentrating on one spot will make it numb; Lick the alphabet"

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(Thought of these on 14/02/2001 while on the train to and from Leeds)

"Try freezing things (come on use your imagination or get odigo)"

"The best men never win"

""Don't smoke (no really)"

"I find it hard to =hit= on women because I respect them"

"An open mind, trust and an open heart are main components of love"

"Every woman redefines beauty in her own way"

"Sex is a momentary twitch, love is forever... Sex is just another expression"

"I could feel forfilled just by giving pleasure to woman, without receiving any...because I wanna see people happy. That's why I cook, write music, create art and want to change the world."

"Fruit"

"'Education Education Education' A quote from a certain politition and yes it applies here...(but you can't beat work experience)."

"Learn to mind f*ck, it will give sex a whole new slant"

"Smother your partners body with a blanket of kisses...everywhere. But save the best till last"

"Men remember women don't actually need men... i.e. They can get the high flying jobs, they can drive, they can build houses, they can fight, they don't even need us to fertilize them anymore... So respect them"

"Women are not an object or a prize, women are people"

"When you feel bad about yourself compliment your partner"

"Every man has a fetish"

"You can do so much with a feather"

"Massage doesn't have to be a deep muscle relaxation, try massaging just the skin"

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"Give guided tours"

"Think me as, as your personal masseur"

"I'm always looking for self improvement. I want to learn new things, make me take you to new places."

"Any time with your partner is time well spent, but too much can be a bad thing"

"I want a t-shirt that says cunnilingue on it, as its my personal favorite part of sex."

"Men you can learn so much from reading women self help books."

"the best way to last longer is by making slow, deliberate motions"

"testosterone levels can drop by 1.2 percent each year of your life. Even thinking about sex more frequently can help to boost testosterone levels"

"A woman's body is an amazing thing. They are curvaceous and graceful, and just soft enough to cuddle."

"I want this book!!"

"be an attentive and knowledgeable lover and listening carefully to what she wants, you can certainly facilitate her pleasure"

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"Size only matters when you think it does"

"Never forget trust"

"Silence is probably one of the most dangerous things in a relationship"

"If you think oral sex is lousey ask yorself 'How would you eat yours?' and tell partner"

"Minds over matter"

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Good books to read;

"Our Bodies Ourselves" Can't remember the author

"The mirror within" Can't find it at the mo'.

"Germaine Greer The Female Eunuch" By Germaine Greer, a very good feminist book.